Showing posts with label Extreme Makeover Home Edition. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Extreme Makeover Home Edition. Show all posts
Friday, September 23, 2011
{An Extreme Journey}... Why Us?
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| Photo by Tara Behnke |
To my wonderful, amazing, incredible, talented, family, friends and community...
Hearing the amazing stories of out of work contractors who volunteered and sacrificial giving in it's purest form almost makes me weep... Why us Lord? And even now as I type in the most amazing living room I could have ever imagined... I am thinking ... this is too much... Why Us Lord?
There were so many people who came and served with their own inspirational stories... so many who came gave more than they really had to give. At least one amazing angel I know for sure was actually homeless, she made a cross necklace for us out of nails and wire as she watched a home being built for a family she didn't know... Why Us Lord??
Of course I don't have the answer... your comments and emails have been so encouraging but I feel like I should make it clear ...we know we're not deserving of such a gift... no one really is. My friend Nikki put it so well the other day when she said, "receive & enjoy it for the gift that it is from God, all grace from his endless goodness, not because you deserve it."
My mom just read me a devotional about 2 Samuel 23... where David is so thirsty his men cross enemy lines to get him water from the well at Bethlehem... when they came back he couldn't drink it because it was too great of a gift for himself... he had to pour it out for the Lord.
This idea of pouring out a monumental blessing has consumed me... this house... this gift ... your sacrificial blessing for our family... is not deserved, but it has been received with overwhelming joy and gratitude. Now all we can do is continue to "pour it out" as a blessing for our friends and family... our community and most of all for our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and his Kingdom.
I get that not all of you who read this share my faith in such a mighty and forgiving God... but you have to know I couldn't share this experience without sharing what he has done in me through it. Seeing each of you in photos and on the news working for our family is like watching God's love in action. I don't know why God chose us for such a tremendous gift... just know this is only the start to the EXTREME Journey we GET to be apart of, and we are so immensely blessed to see where He will take us next!
I also want to give a HUGENORMOUS thank you to all of you amazing EMM's. You can't know how amazing it feels to be loved and supported by so many incredible moms! I love you with all of my heart!!
Ark Built Renovations headed up by Rush Behnke and Ken Snelling and The Dream Team thought up this up this lavishly beautiful amazing breathtaking project... These men are the most amazing examples of God's grace, love and mercy... not only are they so incredibly talented... but they are people we should all strive to be like. We love you and your families so much, seeing God in you has changed us at our core and inspired us in ways you'll never know!
We have made some amazing friends from the Extreme Team, and we are so blessed that you considered us worthy of such a gift... we won't let you down... we will pay it forward. God has used you in a mighty way to change our family's legacy and to unite the most amazing community on earth! Thank you!
Love With All Of our Hearts and Souls,
The McPhail's
I also want to give a HUGENORMOUS thank you to all of you amazing EMM's. You can't know how amazing it feels to be loved and supported by so many incredible moms! I love you with all of my heart!!
Ark Built Renovations headed up by Rush Behnke and Ken Snelling and The Dream Team thought up this up this lavishly beautiful amazing breathtaking project... These men are the most amazing examples of God's grace, love and mercy... not only are they so incredibly talented... but they are people we should all strive to be like. We love you and your families so much, seeing God in you has changed us at our core and inspired us in ways you'll never know!
We have made some amazing friends from the Extreme Team, and we are so blessed that you considered us worthy of such a gift... we won't let you down... we will pay it forward. God has used you in a mighty way to change our family's legacy and to unite the most amazing community on earth! Thank you!
Love With All Of our Hearts and Souls,
The McPhail's
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Monday, September 19, 2011
Extreme Makeover's real hero's...nope, it's not the actors...guess again...Yep! It's the locals!!! Now it's time to support THEM!!!
I got to witness a miracle this week. It had nothing to do with a house built in 5 days (although that is unbelievable!), or the famous people milling around with us commoners, it wasn't about the logistics of what it takes to organize 3000 people or the fact that the McPails are blessed more than there are words with this gift of a new home. What blew me away this week was the fact that hundreds, even thousands of "local" people came together and donated time, money and "things" to build an Extreme Makeover home. I have been contemplating what would move so many people to give to this cause, to help people that they don't even know...what I am overwhelmed by is the fact that people do it because they want to be involved, and make something huge happen for the simple reason of wanting to help. (aside from the ones that were there just to see TY :) ) "OOOOOO" you say..."your deep! Nice observation dummy". So it may not be a huge revolution but it is a cool thing to contemplate...You see, I saw Rush from Ark built, hustling around every time I was there, the ladies from Terra Firma were there one night when I left and 2:00 AM and they were already there working away when I came back the next morning. Four seasons (and other nurseries) created a landscape fit for a castle, while Food for Less donated crates of water and Gatorade for the workers. Gates furniture donated so much furniture its unreal (Ill be there next time I need something!!!) Almost all of the building materials were donated, the vehicles that were used to drive around, and the trailers were loaned, local book stores and toys stores helped out...and honestly there are so many more businesses that donated that it would take days to list!!! And they all did it just to help!!! CRAZY!! One more thing I have to mention...I put a call out to a few women who I knew would pull through and donate an item of something they sell to a silent action to benefit the family build fund...before I knew it, almost 100 "moms" had posted things to auction from their businesses!!! I am still blown away by the fact that a group of awesome women raised around $7000!!!! So stinking cool!!!
I had a chance to get involved in rounding up a few last minute donation needs and what I realized is that it was totally easy to find local business people that were glad to help, but a big corporation?? Their hands are tied. I was discouraged every time I called a big chain store and got the same answer about the fact that it would have to go to corporate and...bla, bla, bla...but the minute I got a local business owner on the phone, they were excited to help! This has left such an impression on me that I am giving myself a challenge...
And as a thank you...we are giving you %10 off
I had a chance to get involved in rounding up a few last minute donation needs and what I realized is that it was totally easy to find local business people that were glad to help, but a big corporation?? Their hands are tied. I was discouraged every time I called a big chain store and got the same answer about the fact that it would have to go to corporate and...bla, bla, bla...but the minute I got a local business owner on the phone, they were excited to help! This has left such an impression on me that I am giving myself a challenge...
For the next month, I am only going to shop either small local businesses, or from actual people selling their own stuff online, or in crafters markets, and definitely I'm going to support "mom based businesses"!...I've always been a huge fan of locally owned grocery stores, and growers markets, but this month I'm stepping up my commitment to saving my grocery shopping for those places.
(one thing...in case the paparazzi catches me, I will still buy my peanut butter and bread from
cost-co because mama would go broke not buying those in serious bulk!)
* I already started by buying some new running shoes a local store for a half marathon that is this weekend that Lindsay roped me into and is now trying to get out of (did I just tell everyone that???)
* I recently had fun shopping all mom owned business for baby shower gifts (I have to give a little more than just our own Earth Monkey gear)
* and we are working on utilizing people here to help with the next items to be added to our Earth Monkey line.
So who is in this with me???? Up for the challenge??? Im not asking you to give up every big store that you love, (I might even die without a trip through Target!) I'm just challenging us all to think about how we can help our own communities, and our own hard working business owners...Let me know if you are in!
of the entire line of "pumpkin" print.
and let us know what other mom business you like to shop from!!!
Monday, September 12, 2011
More pictures from the Extreme Home makeover home!! (and just a little rant!) Ya baby..these are the people that git-r-done!
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| This is Lindsay's aunt Lee, her cousin Jill and her mom Cindy (If I am found dead..they should be considered suspects) |
You see, I learned another great lesson two nights ago
you'd think after all of my mistakes I'd have it mostly figured out, but nope...heres another one!
You can not know someones full story
until you walk in their shoes,
until you walk in their shoes,
or spend 12 years being their friend, and business partner
and you raise your kids together, or if you give birth to them or grow up for 30 years by their side...
And even then, you would be a fool to think you know it ALL..
We were told by some wise person that there will be negativity and ignorant talk out there about Lindsay and her family getting this miracle of an Extreme Home makeover. There is always someone in "more need", someone "more desperate" or someone with a "greater tragedy". I get that, and I agree..hey, Donald Trump is poor when you compare him to Bill Gates who is worth 56 billion (thats a lot of shoes for mama!) My point is, It's all relative, but there is always a bigger picture.
I'm not going to spend my post today justifying anything because honestly there is nothing to justify, and I think that wasting any time on that would be doing a disservice to the thousands that have worked their butts off bringing this all together.
So here we go, that quick lesson I learned before we get to the fun stuff...None of us should ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, (is that enough evers?) ever, ever, talk or say anything about anyone that we don't know first hand. We should keep our mouths shut unless we can find the person that we are wanting to talk about and ask them the facts straight up, and then ask if we can talk about them behind their back. This way, rumors never get spread, reputations never get tarnished, feelings never get hurt, and friends never have to verbally beat the C%&$@ out of 6' tall men.
(fyi, I have NEVER done that to anyone eslse ever before) ;)
Rant Done.
(fyi, I have NEVER done that to anyone eslse ever before) ;)
Rant Done.
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| The latest on the house...It hard to put it into words!!! (guess I wont try!) |
The one thing that I think that I have enjoyed most about hanging out around the EM home, is the people. I don't think I have ever seen so many people working together like a huge very well oiled machine. Smiling, saying hi, and taking time to shake hands despite the 101 degree weather, dust and crazy schedules. So what I want to give you all a glimpse into today is the "REAL" people of EMHE. Nothing to deter from the magic, because it is pure magic for sure...but these people are some of the blood, sweat and tears that make it all come together.
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| This is Yogi...he has so many great design ideas that he has to wear the hard hat to keep them all in! actually, he did admit to sleeping with a journal beside his bed! I think I'll keep him! |
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| So I wish I could tell you all of their names.. lets just say if you are wearing a black shirt AND black hat...you are super important! ;) |
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| Rush from Arc Built is top dog out here!!!!! (but I bet he wouldn't admit it!) |
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| Mark is a rockin security guard! Several of these guys stand out in the heat for hours on end, and still smile!!! and Scott...well, I think he just rides around in the golf cart all day looking cool! a lot of "these guys" travel with Extreme Makeover Home Edition... thats a lot of time away from home! |
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| It's not often that you see this many workers all gathered around, but today, they took a few minutes to honor the fallen, and the families of 9/11. |
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| It was a touching moment!!! |
Today is the last day of our Extreme Makeover silent auction...
go place your bids now!!!
All proceeds go to the Family build fund!
All proceeds go to the Family build fund!
Please remember to bring food to the ACCESS tent on sight at the build if you are planning on coming out!
Just so you know... Lindsay and I (Gena)
together designed, created, and manufactured
a line of of eco friendly, on.the.go baby and toddler gear. Because we know what mama's need,
and what gifts friends want to give!
We poor our blood sweat and tears into it Earth Monkeys!!! CLICK HERE to check it out!
together designed, created, and manufactured
a line of of eco friendly, on.the.go baby and toddler gear. Because we know what mama's need,
and what gifts friends want to give!
We poor our blood sweat and tears into it Earth Monkeys!!! CLICK HERE to check it out!
Friday, September 9, 2011
Extreme Makeover Home Edition is here...the journey to Lindsay's new home!
This could be the most challenging post I have written yet...not because the subject matter is deep, or revealing, but it is that I don't know if it's possible for me to do it justice...
As most of you know by now, our own Earth Monkey mama, Lindsay and her family we're chosen to receive an Extreme Home Makeover!!! I struggle to even find the words to describe the intense excitement, joy, and amazement that I am feeling about this entire process...it really only pales to the birth and adoption of my children (sorry babe, this is better than our wedding!;) )
I am hoping today that I can give you a glimpse into the work that is going into the creating, building and fruition of this amazing home! I am going to keep my words few (I know shock hu??) because honestly, I am so tired, and overwhelmed that I feel like my brain is more of a mush ball!
As most of you know by now, our own Earth Monkey mama, Lindsay and her family we're chosen to receive an Extreme Home Makeover!!! I struggle to even find the words to describe the intense excitement, joy, and amazement that I am feeling about this entire process...it really only pales to the birth and adoption of my children (sorry babe, this is better than our wedding!;) )
I am hoping today that I can give you a glimpse into the work that is going into the creating, building and fruition of this amazing home! I am going to keep my words few (I know shock hu??) because honestly, I am so tired, and overwhelmed that I feel like my brain is more of a mush ball!
I'll let Linz tell you at least part of her story of the months previous to this day if she wants someday...but Im going to start at my first glimpse of the EMHE bus!
We stalked I mean, drove by and checked it out on a hunch...It's so stinking cool!
It was crazy to know that it would pull up into someones driveway the next day, and give that family the shock of their lives! We hoped, and wanted to believe that it was them!!!!
On wed morning, we waited patiently for the bus to show, while Linz and the fam were crammed into waiting patiently in a back bedroom wondering if they were going to be the family running out to "good morning McPail family!!!!!"...well apparently in Hollywood, 15 min. means somewhere between 1 hour and 2...so we waited...and waited...
then we saw it...our first glimpse was like a mirage, and honestly I was freaking out so much, I don't even know how I got any picture of this part...I think I turned
my camera off 3 times just trying to snap picts!!!
my camera off 3 times just trying to snap picts!!!
The driveway is long, so I had plenty of time to fumble around a get it coming....
(insert screaming here!!!)
When the bus pulled up to the house. We couldn't see what was going on,
but we were freaking out just a little bit...ok for real, Lindsay's mom was crying like a baby
(I'll be nice and not post the "ugly cry" picture I took of her!)
So basically, the first day was filled with preparation...dozens of trailers, trucks, tractors, tents,
and hundreds of workers piling in...
This is Pauly...I'm sure you all know and love him! He did a great interview with cannel 12 news
It's hard to show the magnitude of what is going on but this is just a little glimpse into some of the people that volunteer their time and work side by side to make this home a reality! It is unbelievable!
Some of the EMHE crew!!! I don't know where they find these people, but they are to coolest, craziest, most hardworking people I have ever seen (when Danny is not sleeping under a tree anyway!)
Oh, I'm just kidding everyone! No sleeping here!
Even the security guards stand around and eat popsicles all day work their butts off!
I have to say...it is stinking hot! 100 plus...not a great time for our hottest days of the year!
Kara is in red and she is an EMHE designer...she and Yogi (sorry no pict...love him, Ill get one soon)
do most of the design work in the house. They are seriously so amazingly talented!!!
Some of the "hero's on the job..."
Finally got a glimpse of Paige in all of her pink cuteness!
Those legs are not even airbrushed...good thing she is too sweet to hate! ;)
This view is on top of the channel 12 van...the foundation is being poured, and it's tough to see,
but there are at the very least, dozens of people working to make it all happen.
I had a chance to walk through the house and take a video and thought a lot about some of the special places in and around the house. I'm not much of a crier, but I have to admit that as I walked around this empty shell, I was struck by a wave of sadness. This home is small, it has cracks in the windows, no heat in most of it, a single bathtub that works better for catching frogs in the hole in the wall (one lives in a tank at my house now) than for bathing. The carpet is impossibly stained, even after almost daily shampooing, the oven catches on fire (for real!) and the seasonal crickets are enough to make a person feel like Pharaoh in the plague...but there are memories here. Of my kids running around laughing with hers, of sitting at her computer for hours on end bringing Earth Monkeys into existence. Boot camp in the back yard, and scooters in the driveway. Kids peeing jumping on the trampoline next to the sad attempt at a garden that a couple of years ago we were sure would produce enough for us to can for the winter. (we forgot that neither one of us gardens or cans...) Anyway...I know that these are MY memories, and I am talking about this like it is my house, but I guess that is the point...this house was a home and everyone felt welcome. Sometimes you had to move aside a pile or 10 of laundry to sit and enjoy the coffee and company, or wrap up in a quilt to not freeze your butt off (maybe that was just me?) but it's a place you wanted to be, because of the people. This is a family filled with love and chaos, but mostly love. So to the McPails, I am sending you a big thank you for letting me in..letting us all in.
You are deeply loved by many!
You are deeply loved by many!
This was a chalkboard that she painted on a cupboard (so crafty!) and I had to take a picture today....
I think the irony of the verse is impossible to overlook!
I think the irony of the verse is impossible to overlook!
and one more thing...just so you all will stop asking...no I have not seen Ty yet...
but I can't resist still putting up a hunky pict!!!
but I can't resist still putting up a hunky pict!!!
I'll let you know if he is as cute in person...soon!
If you do not know Cj and Linsay's story yet...
Click here for the link to the story that was done by EMHE..its worth a minute to read!!!
And one more thing...Cj and Linz are gone on their crazy cool EMHE vacation and will not be seeing any picts or blogs or FB posts. They are cut off from all communication! ;)
Welcome to everyone new to Earth Monkeys..please "follow" us and "share" us!
We appreciate you all!!!
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