Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Dreams Part Deux ... BIG HURKIN DREAMS... Just Do It!!



From palydate/"company meetings" with kids screaming and fighting like they are leading prison riots, to late night planning when we could barely mutter anything more decipherable than "Ummmm... I know I had something important to say"... I think our biggest accomplishment through this entire Earth Monkey journey has been... JUST DOING IT!


And it's in the spirit of JUST DOING IT, that we are moving on to the next chapter of Earth Monkeys. For so long the worlds of the E.M.M. blog and our rad E.M. products have seemed to coexist but never really merge, or support each other. We love our Green Gear and of course you know how much we love all of you... so.... dah dah dah... WE ARE MERGING THE GAB AND GREEN GEAR... business and blog... sales and sisterhood! Like Thirty-One Gifts, Stella and Dot, J.Hilburn and so many others... Earth Monkeys will soon be added to the list of direct sales/party plan companies. (Don't role your eyes at me young lady... it's gunna be A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!)


Here's the thing... We have both been involved in direct sales companies before. Some of our experiences have been amazing... and some ... not so good, honestly. But we just want to focus on the good. We have taken all of the awesome aspects of the companies we've worked with and left all of the things that make us squidgy and that have unfortunately given this industry a black eye of sorts. 


KEEPING IT REAL... What all of this means...


As a blog follower, customer and fellow Earth Monkey Mom... nothing will change for you! We refuse to be annoying or pushy... in fact one of the chapters in our training manual is "DON"T BE ANNOYING...REALLY... JUST DON'T" You will still enjoy the same community as you always have:) BUt if you're a mom who is looking for a little more... who would like to be able to work from home with your own little monkeys on crack, this could be a game changer for you!


So, if you're looking to earn a fancy car or make $30k a month... I can tell you right now, this isn't the job opportunity for you. There are so many other amazing companies that offer those incentives, Earth Monkeys however, isn't one of them. BUT if you're looking for a company that will support you with a community of women who want to see you succeed... If you want to earn a couple hundred to maybe even a couple thousand extra dollars a month... If you want to be a part of bringing {green} to the average mom, you should check this out. There are no downlines, no levels, no minimum monthly orders . It's just us... and you ... working as partners. It's you owning a mini franchise and getting all of the training and support you'll need to help you connect and sell and be wildly successful!


Like Gena said on Monday...We LOVE helping other moms succeed. We LOVE encouraging and inspiring and being real about life, love and parenthood. So whether you have your own thing going on ~OR~ you'd like to get involved in what we have going on. Our goal is still the same: To make Earth Monkeys a safe place for moms to come and relax and know that they're not alone. AND to encourage you in your own BIG HURKIN DREAMS! We're excited to start this new chapter... we're even more excited though that we get to start it with YOU! So let's get to it... 


{Pssst...} Our E.M. virtual parties are just one area of our party plan structure. Check out the new interactive site, do some research for yourself and contact us if you're interested in becoming a Mini Franchise Partner. We won't roll this out until fall but we are only allowing so many people from each zip code to become partners. So if you think this is something you may want to do, let us add your name to the list! Even if this opportunity isn't for you, please share it with your other mommy friends! Happy Wednesday!














Monday, August 8, 2011

We have a dream...a big hurkin scary dream!!!

I can remember the exact location and moment when Lindsay shouted across the street, in the midst of our kid chaos, the idea that started it all.  Born out of necessity (aka seriously grubby toddlers) she said "we need a bib that folds up that we can keep on our keychains!"  Don't tell her, but I thought at the time, great idea "I'm sure someone will do it someday!"



You see, our brilliant dreams for big things actually started 6 years ago when as brand new, first time moms, we came up with this great idea to get make our own, sassy, boutique style bib line for non stop drooling babies...it was brilliant!  Our first clue however that it would never work, should have been that neither one of us owned a sewing machine or even knew how to sew!  But we forged on.  Needless to say, our lack of business knowledge, our newborns and mostly our sewing skills (or lack there of) drove us to have to close the doors on "SawVae".


AAAAhhhh dreams....
Now lets fast forward to 1 year ago when Earth Monkeys was born.



There we were, slightly smarter, wiser, driven and slightly more exhausted with 5 kids total!  But we forged on!  Every day, our dreams (and gallons of coffee)  propelled us to work hard, pray hard, and dream big, no, dream huge!!!



Remember when you were a new parent you "knew it all"??  You had goals, direction, plans and you knew exactly what your child would be doing 10 years from now?  Then crazy enough, and much to your dismay, Jr. doesn't act, do, or follow any of your "perfect plans"?  Well, Earth Monkeys is that child.  We've had moments when we pretty much knew where we were going to be in 10 years, and we had a clear path to get there.  We had our dreams written out, our goals defined, and the hutzpah (love that word!)  to make it all come together!  Funny how dreams change!  Somedays we are amazed at what these two simple, busy, completely slightly crazy moms have accomplished with out even a real college degree between us.. and somedays we feel buried in what we still need to do!  The one thing that never waivers though, is the love we have for the connection we have made with all of you.  YOU make us feel sane, YOU make us feel like we will survive this thing called mother hood, and YOU remind us that we are not alone.  We never dreamed that we could become this passionate about wanting to see other women succeed, to grow and to come together!  We want to see your dreams come true, just like we want our dreams to come true with Earth Monkeys.   We adore getting to "hang" with all of you, we soak it all in and love it all!   Anyway, We are talking about dreams here...



Earth Monkeys as a company has grown, and we thank every customer that supports us, and every mom that uses our products and tells your friends about us!  This last year has been a year of growth as a company, but more importantly, growth personally!  We are in the production stages of our next 3 products and the new direction that we are taking EM feels like a 180 degree turn.  But we are stoked, we are excited to give other moms a chance to jump on board this crazy ride with us...but that is all we can say (for now anyway).  It's a dream, a big hurkin scary dream...we can't wait to tell you what is next for us, but if we told you everything, then you wouldn't have anything to lose sleep over!  (bwahahahah).



Dreams...here we go, get ready to dream with us!  To be continued....



Friday, April 8, 2011

{"Like" Me}





I’ve been depressed lately. I know right now I have a good reason to be, I’ve been homebound for a few weeks due to a recent surgery, I’m unable to lift my youngest daughter and take care of my family’s most basic needs. And I’m going through huge hormonal changes due to the type of surgery I had. I’ve been so blue that I haven’t really been online a lot; I’ve been in survival mode, seriously just trying to heal so I can get back to my life. There is another reason I’ve been blue though, and it’s very hard for me to admit…I made the mistake of checking my book sales and well, let’s just say that my hiatus from the internet due to my depression has clearly impacted how many people are buying my book.



I’m not sure how I even got here. My dream started as a child, I always wanted to be a writer for National Geographic, however, I quickly learned that to get a degree in journalism you have to be able to actually spell, which, I cannot. So as that dream died I found another dream, I wanted to write novels, I had started one ages ago that still to this day has never been finished. I’ve published one children’s novel and am almost finished writing the second book in the series, but I’m stuck and I’m not sure how to get out of it.



Here is my problem, I had tons of great feedback from the first book and then one day I received not so good feedback. It wasn’t mean or anything and I know the person was trying to be helpful, but since then I’ve had a block. How is it that one comment out of almost a hundred can ruin my mojo? Does this happen to everyone? Is it just me? Is it the fact that I’m a people pleaser? Seriously how has one semi- negative sentence impacted my life’s dream? Why have I allowed it to?



I wonder when I began measuring my success by how many people “liked” me on Facebook. I wonder when I started to allow this to dictate how and when and how well I write. It really bothers me that I’ve given away my power to a website and to other people’s opinions.



There was a time that I wrote because I loved it. I wrote knowing no one would ever read it, and it made me so happy. Recently though I’ve noticed that I’m writing for a different reason, not just to sell books, but to be “liked.” This just doesn’t sit well with me, I thought this part of my personality died after high school, at least I had hoped that it had.



Perhaps that is part of the problem, with Facebook, we are not only given an amazing reach to everyone on the planet, but also to everyone from our past that maybe we really just wanted to forget, to bury with the parts of ourselves that we grew out of. I went from not talking to anyone from my high school for almost ten years, to suddenly having almost everyone I’ve ever met riding in my pants pocket via my phone. Don’t get me wrong it’s great to be connected to everyone, but suddenly I noticed I’m becoming someone I’m not in order to be “liked.”



I had made a deal with myself months ago that I could only get on Facebook on the days that I spent time writing, I had a deadline for my second novel that has come and gone and I’m still finishing it up. The agreement with myself worked, I didn’t get online for days, sometimes weeks, because I had writer’s block. But sadly as I said earlier it seemed to have a direct impact on book sales, as using social media is a huge way of free advertising for a first time author. So now I’m not sure what to do; I want to sell books, but more importantly I want to write them. I should say I want to WANT to write them. I want to be connected to people, but I don’t want to be owned by whether or not people “like” me.



Most days I wonder what I’ve gotten myself into, I mean seriously can I really write an entire fifty book series for children? It just seems almost insurmountable. At this point it would be so easy to just give up and go back to being only a stay at home mom. I could quit the whole writing game, I could go back to doing chores during naptime rather than forcing myself to sit and try to write something that hopefully no one will respond negatively to. I could, I could so easily give up.



Being a woman today is kinda rough, really the whole woman’s movement, yes it is wonderful, but now we not only have careers and families and McMansions to tend to, but also these annoying goals! (I say that tongue in cheek, of course.) I’m not sure how to balance them all, I’m not sure how to cross them off my list, but maybe that’s my problem. Instead of crossing goals off my list- maybe I just need to enjoy my journey. Maybe I just write because I love to write, and maybe the next time someone gives me less than thrilling feedback I actually just take the advice rather than being paralyzed by it. Maybe.



So starting today my new goal is this, not to finish my next book just to “finish” it and get it on the shelf. Not to be “liked” on Facebook, or to sell a million copies, but to love what I do. And to show my daughters that having a dream is a wonderful thing, having goals isn’t just to make money or to become famous, it’s literally finding the missing pieces of my personal puzzle, those things, those moments, that only myself and God are in control of, that complete me.



And maybe just maybe along the way I might inspire someone else to follow their own dreams, hopefully even my own daughters…because let’s face it, no matter how many “likes” we get on Facebook or followers on Twitter, if we aren’t inspiring our own children, we may as well give up.



My oldest daughter and I have a deal that during naptime she does school work and I write, today she presented me with something I’ll treasure as long as I live. It’s five pages of preschool lined paper with drawings and letters scrawled on every inch, bound together with what appears to be a million staples. As she presented it to me, her smile was enormous…



“Look Mommy, I wrote a book, just like you!”



Now that’s better than a million “likes” any day.




{Tell us if there has been a time when you let being "liked" dictate how you live your life...if you're brave enough that is. One lucky commenter will win Shauna's book!}


Shauna, is a the author of the Waypoint Book Series as well as mom of two monkeys of her own. You can find Cache Quest Oregon, the first book in her series on Barnes&Noble.com. For more infomation on her book go to www.waypointbookseries.com or check out her book trailer below!

















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Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Daring to dream...in the midst of utter chaos

It's amazing how beautifully chaotic life is one moment and how the next feels so overwhelming it's almost too much to bear. No matter how hard it gets though, things seem to flow back into the wonderful mess of a life, that's still total mayhem but also comfortable and safe and manageable. Too many days I've settle for manageable over fulfilling or inspiring because it's easier and I'm tired, and I don't think I'm alone in this.



Have you ever thought of something you'd love to do... that you're good at... that you're passionate about, only to put it out of your mind a nano-second later because it seems like too big of a dream...too overwhelming, too time consuming, or too [enter whatever excuse you want here]?? I have, too many times to count.



Last April Gena and I were trying to load our CRAZY(!!!) monkeys into the car after a nightmarishly grueling refreshing trip to the farmers market (FYI if you see us coming turn and run... I repeat, turn and run... it's for your own good) Anyway... we were wrangling the grimy, sticky, wild animals into their seats and I yelled out to Gena, "Hey we need a bib that just clicks to our keychains so we just always have them with us... my kids are disgusting!!" and that was it... she was in... and so the crazy, whacked out Earth Monkey journey began...



Gena didn't even know what a blog was 9 months ago and I have never followed through with anything... EVER(this includes but is not limited to recipes, any sort of directions or crafty projects)!! Still, in spite of ourselves, next week our first line of eco friendly bibs, pacifier holders and changing pads will be here... well they'll be at Gena's house, in her spare room.... all 30,000 of them... hold on I need to go hyperventilate... It's terrifying and exciting all at once.  The past nine months have been a chaotic circus. So many times we just had to look at each other and laugh (to keep from crying) as we designed, planned, reworked and re-reworked our company with screaming kids crawling up our legs. When we'd meet during the day, desperately trying to get things done, our kids would poop on the floor, fight, bite, and pee on each other. We tried meeting at night after the kids were in bed, but our dialog went something like this.... "Ummmmm, hmmmm... I know I was going to tell you something... OH!... no that wasn't it." and the other one would answer with a yawn and a blank stare in a total mommy stupor.  We know nothing about the retail industry, or manufacturing or overseas shipping, or marketing (Thank the good Lord for Google)... but we had a dream and we're a little nuts...  so we just went for it. We haven't sold a single piece yet... we still have what feels like a million details to take care of in a very short mount of time... and I'm sitting here shocked and amazed that this is actually going to happen... it's a great feeling... one I never would have felt if I hadn't let go of my desire for comfort and control.



So today, if you're a stay at home mom... a work at home mom... or a work at work mom... I hope you can think about something you've always wanted to do... and just start doing it... even if you have crazy monkeys and no time to yourself, even if you have no money or resources. Because it's amazing what happens when we stop settling for "manageable mayhem" and just dare to dream... It's a new year and a great time to let go of fears and baggage and be the person God created you to be... so join us here at crazy, and just go for it!



Watch for the Earth Monkeys official launch soon!! Here are just a few of our products, all made 100% from recycled plastic bottles (*carabiners made from recycled aluminum).... Freaking out here... ok I'm breathing again... I guess no one said it wouldn't be scary:)





Wednesday, November 3, 2010

I still have dreams...They just look a little different!



I was ALONE in my car!  I know crazy hu?  To celebrate this special occasion, I rolled down all the windows and turned up MY music as loud as my ears could handle.  I felt like I was 20 again (except for my red sports car has been replaced with a practical subaru!)   Anyway…My voice sounded as angelic as Carries as we belted out “Jesus take the wheel”!  I’m pretty sure that if I wasn’t a stay at home mom, I would be a country singer.  I would tour with Tim, Faith, and Carrie, and I would shoot my videos wearing a white lace dress with cowboy boots and a jean jacket (I think my husband would like that part!)



Ok so maybe my dream is a bit far fetched since my singing would be showcased among the ones they joke about on American idol…But stick with me because now I’m going to get serious…



Dream and Be silly (ok so I’m not going to get that serious).



I am the best singer in the world to my kids as we dance around the living room with our “microphones” and air guitars.  We throw up our rock fists as Michael Jackson plays in the car (I don’t recommend this as it may be dangerous!)



If you are Heidi, Jazel or Cindy in your dreams…Dress up with the kids and take funny pictures as you walk the cat walk!



Are you the next chef Rocco? You can make great memories inventing exciting dishes with your kids…We make more messes than tasty treats, but its fun trying.



So once again, I’m going to slow down this week, dream, be silly and make fun memories for me and my kids…And I’m even going to put on some of that lace for my husband!