Showing posts with label home. Show all posts
Showing posts with label home. Show all posts

Friday, September 9, 2011

Extreme Makeover Home Edition is here...the journey to Lindsay's new home!

    This could be the most challenging post I have written yet...not because the subject matter is deep, or revealing, but it is that I don't know if it's possible for me to do it justice...



     As most of you know by now, our own Earth Monkey mama, Lindsay and her family we're chosen to receive an Extreme Home Makeover!!! I struggle to even find the words to describe the intense excitement, joy, and amazement that I am feeling about this entire process...it really only pales to the birth and adoption of my children (sorry babe, this is better than our wedding!;) )



     I am hoping today that I can give you a glimpse into the work that is going into the creating, building and fruition of this amazing home! I am going to keep my words few (I know shock hu??) because honestly, I am so tired, and overwhelmed that I feel like my brain is more of a mush ball!



     I'll let Linz tell you at least part of her story of the months previous to this day if she wants someday...but Im going to start at my first glimpse of the EMHE bus! 
 We stalked   I mean, drove by and checked it out on a hunch...It's so stinking cool!
It was crazy to know that it would pull up into someones driveway the next day, and give that family the shock of their lives!  We hoped, and wanted to believe that it was them!!!!


On wed morning, we waited patiently for the bus to show, while Linz and the fam were crammed into waiting patiently in a back bedroom wondering if they were going to be the family running out to "good morning McPail family!!!!!"...well apparently in Hollywood, 15 min. means somewhere between 1 hour and 2...so we waited...and waited...
 then we saw it...our first glimpse was like a mirage, and honestly I was freaking out so much, I don't even know how I got any picture of this part...I think I turned

my camera off 3 times just trying to snap picts!!!
The driveway is long, so I had plenty of time to fumble around a get it coming....
(insert screaming here!!!)
When the bus pulled up to the house.  We couldn't see what was going on, 
but we were freaking out just a little bit...ok for real, Lindsay's mom was crying like a baby
 (I'll be nice and not post  the "ugly cry" picture I took of her!)
So basically, the first day was filled with preparation...dozens of trailers, trucks, tractors, tents, 
and hundreds of workers piling in...
This is Pauly...I'm sure you all know and love him!   He did a great interview with cannel 12 news
It's hard to show the magnitude of what is going on but this is just a little glimpse into some of the people that volunteer their time and work side by side to make this home a reality!  It is unbelievable!
Some of the EMHE crew!!!   I don't know where they find these people, but they are to coolest, craziest, most hardworking people I have ever seen (when Danny is not sleeping under a tree anyway!)  
Oh, I'm just kidding everyone!  No sleeping here!
Even the security guards stand around and eat popsicles all day work their butts off!
I have to say...it is stinking hot!  100 plus...not a great time for our hottest days of the year!
Kara is in red and she is an EMHE designer...she and Yogi (sorry no pict...love him, Ill get one soon)
 do most of the design work in the house.  They are seriously so amazingly talented!!!  
Some of the "hero's on the job..."
Finally got a glimpse of Paige in all of her pink cuteness!  
Those legs are not even airbrushed...good thing she is too sweet to hate! ;)
This view is on top of the channel 12 van...the foundation is being poured, and it's tough to see, 
but there are at the very least, dozens of people working to make it all happen.




I had a chance to walk through the house and take a video and thought a lot about some of the special places in and around the house.  I'm not much of a crier, but I have to admit that as I walked around this empty shell, I was struck by a wave of sadness.  This home is small, it has cracks in the windows, no heat in most of it, a single bathtub that works better for catching frogs in the hole in the wall (one lives in a tank at my house now) than for bathing.  The carpet is impossibly stained, even after almost daily shampooing,  the oven catches on fire (for real!) and the seasonal crickets are enough to make a person feel like Pharaoh in the plague...but there are memories here.  Of my kids running around laughing with hers, of sitting at her computer for hours on end bringing Earth Monkeys  into existence.  Boot camp in the back yard, and scooters in the driveway.  Kids peeing jumping on the trampoline next to the sad attempt at a garden that a couple of years ago we were sure would produce enough for us to can for the winter.  (we forgot that neither one of us gardens or cans...)  Anyway...I know that these are MY memories, and I am talking about this like it is my house, but I guess that is the point...this house was a home and everyone felt welcome.  Sometimes you had to move aside a pile or 10 of laundry to sit and enjoy the coffee and company, or wrap up in a quilt to not freeze your butt off (maybe that was just me?) but it's a place you wanted to be, because of the people.  This is a family filled with love and chaos, but mostly love.  So to the McPails, I am sending you a big thank you for letting me in..letting us all in.

You are deeply loved by many!


This was a chalkboard that she painted on a cupboard (so crafty!) and I had to take a picture today....

I think the irony of the verse is impossible to overlook!


and one more thing...just so you all will stop asking...no I have not seen Ty yet...

but I can't resist still putting up a hunky pict!!! 
 I'll let you know if he is as cute in person...soon! 
If you do not know Cj and Linsay's story yet...
Click here for the link to the story that was done by EMHE..its worth a minute to read!!!


And one more thing...Cj and Linz are gone on their crazy cool EMHE vacation and will not be seeing any picts or blogs or FB posts.  They are cut off from all communication! ;)


Welcome to everyone new to Earth Monkeys..please "follow" us and "share" us!  
We appreciate you all!!!


   

Friday, March 4, 2011

A pillow project with only 6 easy steps!!! A lot of "Chic" a little "Shabby"

Mindy is the mother of two children, a wife and creator of all that is beautiful~along with her business of making any piece of unloved furniture amazing, she inspires others to try their hand at adding character to their own homes. Her blog "Pretty in Paint" is a fun and inspiring look into her world.



     I always walk through stores like Pier1 or even Target and all the cute pillows are like 20-30 dollars!!!  Who can afford that when you know they are gonna get ruined by the kids or the dog or my husband, plus you need at least 2 and $40 is an investment!!. Recently I have converted my house into a Shabby chic kindof style. The best part of this is, it can be shabby!!!  As in not perfect, a little lopsided, mix and matched!!!

     Which means I can sew and my lines don't have to be totally straight and it wont matter!!! How great is that.  I'm a fast sewer (because I have no time or patience to take my time), I don't have time to cut straight lines or use those annoying pins.. I just wing it! I'm not kidding!! If you look really close at the lines on the pillow they are not straight. and it doesnt matter. yay! But recently after walking through Pier1 I found these napkins for $2.97 each and a bag of Polly-fill for $3.00 so for a total of about $7.00 I made this fabulous shabby white pillow.  So for that price if it only lasts a few months, I'm fine with that!!            

                                                       And here is how you can do it!



Step 1:  Wash and dry the napkins then iron them












Step 2: Lay out the napkins good side out on both sides. 
I wanted the cute trim on the outside to show, 
so I sewed them on the good sides out 

instead of the conventional inside out












Step 3: Sew the entire 3 edges of the napkin fabric, 
leaving about an inch for the trim to not be sewn
*Leave about 6 inches unsewn so you can stuff your pillow


(Let me remind you I'm not a great sewer at all!!! I have a cheap wal-mart sewing machine that I went in 1/2's with, with my mom!! So If I can do it, anyone can do it!)




Step 4: Stuff your pillow with poly-fil, 
just shove fist fulls inside until its fluffy enough for you




Step 5: Hold together the 6" opening and sew it shut!
Thats it!!


We are so jazzed that Mindy is giving away this adorable pillow that she showed us how to make!  Simply "like" her Pretty in Paint FB page and of course Earth Monkeys too then come back and "comment" below...a winner will be chosen at random!  Oh Oh Pick me!!!!



And one last thing...please take a quick second and click the "about 2011" link to the right and vote for Earth Monkeys...it's easy and we need every vote!  Thanks friends!!!!

Friday, February 4, 2011

DIY Photography: {How to create memories of your kids in an artistic way}

Alex was born in Lima, Peru. When she was sixteen when she moved to Central Point, Oregon. A few years after graduating high school she met, fell in love with and married her husband. Together they have two very active girls. She is an amazingly creative photographer, and we are excited to have her share her "brilliance" with us!! Make sure to go to her FB page and "like" her! She deserves it!!



I've been having a blast documenting my little ones lives by taking pictures and video taping them. Even though I live to imagine, invent, and create, I have never been a fan of scrap booking. Nothing against it I think it is a great way to preserve pictures and memories. I just have never gotten into it, however I do love to put pictures up on our walls.



In this post I will give you ideas of fun ways to personalize your kids rooms in a way that they will always remember. You can decide what you would like to do for this project, by coming up with an idea that best fits your family.



I have chosen to take a picture of my daughter Jennah and her best pal in the world. Her name is baby. I know it is not very original -- she did name her when she was one, but she loves her so much. She has been in our family since Jennah was born. We do not dare to leave her anywhere because she won't sleep without her; literally! We left her in Seattle once and we did not sleep until grandma overnighted her!!! I have also decided to take a picture of my youngest daughter Isabella and her weiner dog Twinkers, who is her best pal.



For this project you need:

An idea/ vision like the one above

A camera ( it does not need to be a fancy one )

Some sort of editing program such as Photoshop elements, or Picasso ( it is free I believe)

[editors note: EMM's use picnik.com...it's easy for those not too smart :) ]

Frames to hang the pictures in.



Step One

Decide what background you want to use for your picture...be sure to pick and area that has plenty of natural light. I chose my girls playroom because I like the pastel tones in that room.



Step Two

Dress up your little ones or whoever is going to be in the picture. It looks best when all of the colors flow together. I chose to dress my girls in fun, colorful shirts and pink tule skirts. I also made sure that Baby and Twinkers got their bath and looked as good as they could from being loved/abused for as long as they have!



Step Three

Turn off the flash and take a couple of test shots. You may need to turn the flash on if the pictures are not clear. You can use your editing software to make it look more natural and artsy.

Set your subjects up in the planed area, and snap away! (the more you take, the better chance of getting a GREAT one!)



Step Four

Pick your favorite pictures and edit them to taste in the program you like. Always start by fixing the light, sharpening ( not too sharp ) then you can play with the colors, textures or whatever effects you like.



Step Five

Order your prints!!! Yea! ( or print them yourself)

A photo lab will be able to make your pictures look much better than your home printer. I refer all of my clients to Total Camera in Medford where you can get a CD or order the pictures online and pick them up or have them shipped to you. You can even call and ask them to make adjustments to assure the best results. No they are not paying me to advertise ... I just really like the quality. Gena knows what I am taking about ;)



Step Six

Shop for your frames and hang them up :)



Here is my finished product
And here is what my kids thought about it...
No need for words :) Have fun!

{This Week's Giveaway!} 
This week Alex's giveaway is a customized piece of photo-art. One reader will get to choose any object that is special to you and Alex will photograph it and turn it into a work of art for your home!! She's amazing at this and it could really be a fabulous keepsake for your family!!


{How to Win!}
Personalize this project and post the picture on Maria Alexandria Photography facebook page and at Earth Monkeys and we will pick the winner next friday...we know your busy, and this seems like a big deal... but you can do it!! We want to see!! AND... it's a big prize so you're going to have to d a little work... (just submit your pics, you don't have to take a picture of it hanging up or anything:)





{Want Alex to photograph your family?}

Contact her through her website: www.marialexandraphotography.com

or find her on facebook!









Monday, November 29, 2010

I want more of Christmas...no less...no more...no less...

Oh what a lovely night...I just got both kids down (in their own beds...miracle) and I'm sitting here in the silence (except for the t.v., the drier, and the dishwasher) just me (and the dog, and the husband) typing.   O.K. so it's only a little glamorous.  The beautiful part is the shimmery Christmas tree beside me, not to mention the chuga chuga choo choo train (named by my 2 year old) lying in pieces underneath the for-mentioned shimmery Christmas tree.   None the less, it's pretty.  What makes it even better is that I can gaze at it through my peripheral vision (fancy word), (O.K. I'll stop using parenthesis now, I know its annoying!!!) and completely ignore the massive pile of boxes, stockings, wreathes, lights, snowmen, and other decor behind me...you get the picture right?  You see, my decorating has just begun...2 days ago!  I have had time to accomplish nothing other than the tree and the mess!  I am not complaining.  I love Christmas and all most of what it brings, but sometimes, it's all just a bit too much.  Here are just a few things I am trying to accomplish (along with my normal job, kids, house, company, volunteer work, nose and butt wiping, driving, etc, etc, etc...)




I did not wrap this!
Christmas cards

Decorating

Baking

Christmas parties




This is NOT my house!
Shopping (No I was NOT out there with you crazies on black friday, or I guess it's thursday now!)

Wrapping presents like Martha

Making the perfect Christmas CD

Lights outside that could rival Clark Griswold!

Lights inside

  putting out Christmas dishes...and on, and on...

I know that a lot of you could fill in about a dozen more things you are wanting to do in the next month, but here is my thought for all of us.  First of all if you love the chaos, you go girl, but if you are like me and you don't, I think you will appreciate the words that our pastor gave us today.

He said (I may not be getting this exactly right but here goes)



"I want to make MORE of Christmas, by making LESS of Christmas".



Read that again...

"I want to make MORE of Christmas, by making LESS of Christmas".



I LOVE THIS!!!!  Because I love Christmas, I am going to make LESS of it this year.  What I love, is that for every one of us that chooses to do this, it will mean something different.  For me, here is what it means.



I will not buy every toy that my kids say they need.

I will not make my own bows for each package.

I will not bake.  Nope not even once!  I hate baking people, and I'm the only one that will eat it any way!

I will not host a party, or shop for a new outfit for any that I go to.

I will not care if I don't get wreaths put up just so, or if the stupid train spends more time on the floor than it does on the track.









And I will go back to what Christmas means to me and my family.  We will celebrate Jesus birthday.  We will remember why celebrate, and focus on the magnitude of what He did for us.







So thats it.  Simple.  I am making more of Christmas this year by making less of Christmas this year!





MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!





Friday, November 5, 2010

Loving the one you’re with…







It's Friday, that means it's guest contributor time. EMM is so excited to welcome Katie Ristow! She married her college sweetheart, and together they continue in youth ministry. Last year they left her hometown and moved with their two daughters to Southern Oregon to start a young adult ministry at Table Rock Fellowship.


The other day my husband and I were arguing, but trying our hardest not to seem like we were, cause, you know, our kids wouldn’t know the difference, right? Well, our four- year old daughter climbed up between us and started telling some random story. She knew we had been arguing, and her little appearance was her attempt at making things right. I think all kids have that response built into them. They know when the peace is broken, they know when things aren’t okay, and they desperately long to get back to that.
  Cause mom and dad are their whole world.


  There are all sorts of things that I don’t want to pass onto my kids, like my fear or anxiety. And there are tons of things I DO want to pass onto them, like a love for the Lord, a balanced pursuit of their passions, and desire to minister to other people. But I think one of the best things I can do for them, is to love their daddy.


   My husband and I fight FOR our marriage. We’ve been criticized for being overly affectionate, or too mushy, or blah blah blah. Turns out we have the same love language though, which is mushiness, and so it works fine for us. I’ve been criticized for the way I have built my home by other moms and singles. But, I am passionate about my home, my kids, and my marriage. And I guard those things with everything in me. I am careful about my time with my husband and making sure that HE is the person and MAN that I spend most of my time with. Because all of those things affect my home, my marriage, my kids. Every little thing. For the good or the bad.


   To be honest, I mess up so much that I could definitely benefit from a giant can of whiteout. But, I’m trying to make our home a haven for my kids and my man. And I’ve found that in our home, what affects things the most, is the way my husband and I treat each other. If we’re arguing, the kids behave in a like manner. They’re behavior almost seems to demand our attention, I think, to get us to stop arguing.


   We’ve all heard the saying, “If mama’s not happy, nobody’s happy.” But when it comes to mom and dad, if they’re not at peace, then nobody’s at peace. And so, even though I can follow the trail of dirty socks and shorts to where he is, and even though my one- year- old loves to wash her hands in the glass or food dish he left out the night before, I’m not going to criticize him. I’m going to focus on how grateful I am to have a man to clean up after, a man that loves the Lord, that loves me, and loves his kids. I’m going to forgive him for his forgetfulness that sometimes hurts my feelings, and am going to thank him for his faithfulness. I am going to get over myself, and open my eyes to what I have in him. Literally, my prince charming, only with a beard. And… the next time I argue with him, I’m going to do it in privacy where it won’t disrupt my little ones’ world. I’m going let them see us make up (appropriately, of course. Saving the inappropriate for the bedroom). And I’m going to encourage him.


   It doesn’t just help he and I, but it helps our daughters. It rights their world. It shows them that mommy and daddy are okay, and if we are okay, then everything else is going to be okay too. It shows them what real forgiveness and love and faithfulness and right relationships look like.


   For whatever reason, some of you are doing this parenting thing alone. Even though you’re in a much harder place, we’re all doing the same thing. We’ve all just got to be careful. Careful about whom we bring into our home, about how we speak about our kids’ father, and about how we set the mood of our home. God will be faithful even when others are not.
  
   You’ll be amazed at how having a peaceful home, and, if you’re married, how a good marriage will affect your kids’ lives, from the way they behave at school, to the way they sleep at night. It’s a wonderful thing to walk through my home at night (which I do a lot because I’m a light sleeper), and to feel peace. To see your kids sleeping in peace, to lie down beside your husband in peace, and to rest even in the darkness because all is how it should be.


   I learned a whole life’s worth of lessons sitting by my mom’s deathbed this year. Her cancer was swift moving, taking something from her with every passing breath, reducing her from a healthy, vibrant woman to nothing in a matter of five months. The last conversation she had with any of us was one beautiful morning in May  of 2010 when she awoke coherent and lucid. My father rushed me, my 12 year old sister, and my 15 year old sister into the bedroom. We sat on the bed and she spoke to each of us, taking our hands and imparting a final blessing. For my youngest sister, it was an attempt at a sex talk that had something to do with mating bees. But for my father, it was the most surreal thing I have ever heard. My parents didn’t have a bad marriage, but it wasn’t a fairy tale either. And so, on this last good morning, she turned to him slowly, her eyes so full of heartache and tears that I can still remember exactly what they looked like, and she said, “You weren’t the easiest man to be married to. But you are a good man, and I don’t want to leave you.” And as sobs racked her body, they embraced and she cried again, “I don't want to leave you.”
   It’s all about perspective. It’s about looking beyond the piles of laundry, the unpaid bills, the noise, and the sleepless nights and remembering that none of that really matters in the scope of eternity. What matters are our relationships. What matters is what we’re passing on to our kids. What matters is that we love the man we are with, with a love that is deep, true, passionate, forgiving, enduring, patient, kind, faithful and both inward and outward. And if the man you’re with is not lovable, you can still demonstrate forgiveness, endurance, patience, kindness, and faithfulness


   For from our example is how our babies will learn to love.





Check Out Katie's Personal Blog at www.ristowswife.wordpress.com

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

The Power of the P-Word…OK, it’s a little long…just put on your big girl undies and read it!

I have a filthy mouth. No joke… I talk like a trucker and for no real reason other than it just makes me feel better sometimes. I’ve actually been able to tame my tongue at different points in life…when I went on a mission to Chile for six months….when I became a pastor’s wife and thought I probably shouldn’t be dropping F-bombs in front of our youth group. But somehow the words slowly slip their way back into my vocabulary. It wasn’t until a few weeks ago at Costco when my oldest dropped a huge *&%^%&  %*$#@) bomb that I decided to clean up my act…wondering what he said??? If you guessed the F-Word you’re wrong…it was worse and only a few choice NON-JUDGEMENTAL friends will ever know what he really said. The lady in the isle next to us gasped and looked at me with horror in her eyes. So I did what any self-respecting parent would do…I bent down and said, “Sawyer, where did you hear that??? We never say those words.” I, of course, knew darn well where he’d heard it … flying out of my mouth, twenty minutes earlier, as I tried to find a parking spot.

Anyway, back to the “P-Word” … although it’s not a naughty word … the “P-Word” is a hard one for me to digest. PERSPECTIVE. It’s funny how one word can challenge you and even change your life if you let it. 
Every morning I wake up to this amazing view:
        
It’s even more amazing in person and I praise God for ever day we get to live in our house. Now … if I turned the camera the other direction you would see a rundown, green, cinderblock house and all of the glory it’s original 1959 features offer. The toilets don’t work and there is no heat/air in the back of the house. There are spiders the size of tarantulas roaming the halls and more than once I have visited the bathroom at 2 am only to find LARGE tree frogs waiting to greet me on the toilet seat. The carpet is stained, there are holes in the walls and my floor to ceiling windows are NEVER without grimy finger prints.  Still it’s the house of my dreams and I would choose to live here even if I had millions.
Why can’t I have that kind of perspective in every part of my life? Why can’t I choose to only focus on the positive when it comes to things like my weight, finances or parenting skills?? Instead of picking myself apart in pictures…groaning about how much weight I still have to lose … why can’t I appreciate that I have dropped almost 30 pounds in the past year? Instead of complaining about all of the bills we have to pay…why can’t I choose to praise the sweet Lord that we now have a steady paycheck and don’t have to rely on food stamps like we’ve had to do in the past? Why can’t I choose learn and grow from the good decisions I make as a parent (it does happen occasionally) instead of letting the suffocating weight of guilt keep me awake at night? 
Having the right perspective could change my entire life if I would let it…it’s my choice…it’s your choice. Today I am going to take the time to find the positive in three challenging areas of my life. I am going to praise God for my struggles and ask Him to give me a new perspective on the things in life I hate but I cannot change. Do it with me … because miserly loves company… wait … I mean, because you’ll be glad you did:):)